Yep, that’s me, Kristi the Bargain Finder. My husband and I got married on June 16th, 2012. It’s not very often I get to show pictures of my wedding on a blog for everyone to see, so I jumped at the chance. I hope you enjoy our story, and maybe get some inspiration from it, too. Come back Tuesday and Wednesday to see Part 2 and Part 3, and feel free to leave comments with questions if you have any.
Our Love Story
Terry and I met in May of 2004 at a softball game. I love the game of softball. Every Friday night I played in a co-ed softball league. I had my own team that I played on, but because I loved it so much I would often find other teams who were short players and play in their games, too. When my friend asked me to sub on her team, I played third base and he was the pitcher. My friend introduced me to him after the game and that’s where it all started. Something about his gorgeous blue eyes made me wonder if he was the one. Turns out he was, and we started dating around Christmas that same year (Christmas Eve, to be exact). It took him four years to propose and another three for us to get married.
Combining Our Families
Terry and I both have a child from a different relationship. His daughter was 14 when we started dating and my son was one. Terry became a father to my son, and treats him like his own child, which is one of the many reasons I love him so much. Terry’s daughter lived with her mother most of the time, but would spend some weekends and holidays with us. I have to admit it was a bit strange in the beginning, for both of us, because I am only 13 years older than she is. Caroline is a great kid, and during the eight years her father and I were dating, Caroline and I created a relationship that was comfortable for us. She respects me as her stepmother and I respect her as an adult (she’s 21 now). When we finally started planning our wedding, Caroline jumped at the chance to help – we only had four months to plan our entire wedding – she drove 124 miles, from college to our house, almost every weekend to help us plan. We couldn’t have pulled it off without her help.
Come back tomorrow to see more pictures of our wedding – I’ll talk about how we chose our colors, chose a theme and how we were able to hire a decorator while still staying within our budget. Part 3 will be posted on Wednesday. I’ll talk more about how the venues and vendors we chose helped us keep the cost of our wedding within our budget of $15,000.
Photos Courtesy of Kendra Elizabeth Photography.