How Do You Word Wedding RSVP Cards? Everything You Need to Know

Your wedding invitations are almost ready, but there’s one small (but mighty) detail left: the RSVP card. These little cards do so much heavy lifting! They help you finalize your guest list, get a clear headcount, and make sure you’re planning your dream day down to the last detail. But how exactly do you word wedding RSVP cards?

Don't worry! We’re here to break down the art of RSVP card wording with some expert tips, heartfelt advice, and plenty of examples to help make this task a breeze.

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What Goes on a RSVP Card for a Wedding?

Before we dive into specific RSVP card wording examples, let’s look at the key elements every RSVP card should have.

1. The RSVP Deadline

One of the most important parts of the RSVP card is the deadline. You need your guests to respond by a specific date so you can finalize your catering, seating, and other logistics. A common rule is to set the deadline about 2-4 weeks before the wedding.

You can phrase it in a simple, friendly way:

Please respond by June 1st, 2027

Kindly reply by June 1st, 2027

2. Accept/Decline Option

Your guests need a clear way to tell you whether they’ll be attending. Simple is best:

__ Accepts with pleasure 

__ Declines with regret

or 

__ Will join the celebration!

__ Unable to attend

3. Name(s) of Guests

Make sure there’s a space where guests can fill in their names. The traditional option is a line preceded by “M,” allowing guests to write “Mr.,” “Mrs.,” or “Ms.” in front of their names.

M________________________________

This traditional format works, but it’s become more popular to keep it simple like this: 

Name(s): ________________________

4. Meal Preferences (Optional)

If you’re serving different meal options, asking for guests’ meal choices in advance can help your caterer plan better. You can ask them to select their preferred entrée:

Please select one: Chicken, Beef, Vegetarian

Indicate your meal preference below: Chicken, Salmon, Pasta

5. Fun Extras

Some couples like to add a little fun or personality to their RSVP cards. You can ask for song requests or include a playful question for a personal touch. For example:

We promise to dance if you play: 

Write us a little note of advice for our married life:

RSVP Card Wording Examples for Every Style

Now that we’ve covered what goes on a RSVP card for a wedding, let’s explore how to word them based on the tone and vibe of your big day.

1. Traditional RSVP Card Wording

For classic and formal weddings, traditional wording fits the bill. This is perfect for a black-tie or elegant event:

M____________
__ Accepts with pleasure
__ Declines with regret
Please respond by June 1st, 2027

This example is straightforward and maintains an air of formality. If you’re offering meal options, add:

Please select your entrée:
Chicken, Beef, Vegetarian

2. Casual RSVP Card Wording

Hosting a laid-back wedding? Keep your RSVP card light and breezy:

Name(s): __________
__ Will be there to party!
__ Sorry, can’t make it.
RSVP by June 1st, 2027

For a personal touch, you might add:

Any song requests? We’re all ears:

3. Playful and Fun RSVP Card Wording

If your wedding vibe is fun and quirky, don’t be afraid to let that shine through your RSVP card wording! Here’s a playful approach:

We can’t wait to celebrate with you!
__ Excited to attend!
__ Sadly, can’t make it
Please respond by June 1st, 2027

And if you want to really show off your personalities, throw in something like this:

We promise to hit the dance floor if you play:

4. Destination Wedding RSVP Card Wording

Planning a far-away wedding? Destination weddings come with special considerations, so be sure to add a few extras, like asking for travel details:

M__________
__ Happily attending!
__ Regretfully can’t make it.
Please reply by June 1st, 2027

Flight Information _____________

Staying at the resort?  Yes / No

5. Digital RSVP Options

More and more couples are opting for online RSVPs via a wedding website. If you’re ditching the traditional card for a digital route, write your RSVP request on the backside of your invitation.

Here’s a simple way to direct guests online:

Please Reply Online
Please RSVP at www.frankieandjohn.com by June 1st, 2027
Can’t wait to celebrate with you!

You can also add a QR code to your wedding invites to make responding extra easy!

Extra Tips for RSVP Card Wording

Be clear and concise: You want your guests to respond quickly and easily. Avoid long or confusing phrases that could complicate things.

Keep the RSVP card consistent with your invitation style: Whether your theme is rustic, modern, or vintage, the RSVP card should reflect the tone of your wedding.

Double-check for important details: Double-check that your RSVP deadline is clear and that the wording reflects whether guests need to indicate meal choices or travel details.

We hope you found this advice helpful! Give us a shout if you need any help as you customize your own wedding invitation suite! xoxo